Is there an easier, less uncomfortable way of talking to your boo about sex? About the things you want to try out when your boo is less experimental than you? There is none. You just have to say it, the longer you wait to say it, the more complicated it becomes.

It’s not healthy to just keep your desires bottled up. There is nothing wrong with a little one-on-one, deep down honest conversation. Your boo should be man enough to take it, if not, that doesn’t give you the right to go look for what’s missing in your relationship somewhere else.

Women are more complicated and harder to please in bed compared to men. So it’s not really guys' fault if they sometimes get lost with all the buttons to push but they should at least be willing to learn. After all, there is no manual that comes with a woman’s body. Men should be open to learning from what the woman is saying and what she's not.

Variation is the key. Who cares if you go dress up like a fireman when once you get down to it, you still do it the same way you’ve done it since time immemorial. Try the union of the frog, oyster, goddess, posture of the stars or anything new for that matter. In love-making, it’s how you get there that matters.

One more thing, guys, you don’t have to take home the gold medal everytime. You can go 2nd or 3rd place and take home the silver or bronze medal. I’m sure your girl will appreciate it!

People always make a good topic. I like talking about men as much as women. Both creatures are so complex, so different yet so the same in many ways. So the same especially in their basic needs; need for food, shelter and I even hear some people say sex? It is also funny how these two species try to figure out each other. Men want to know what women want while women are trying to figure out what they want and what their men want.

Because we are mature adults we should be able to talk about anything objectively. So let us talk about sexual health, this should be interesting. I pay attention to my sexual health and I’m curios about male sexual health. Why? Because men don’t open up as easily as women do when it comes to what is ailing them down there. Maybe it is the whole guy issue and how it could make them look less of a guy that makes them offish about the topic. But does it really make them less of a man? I don’t think so. I think there is something very brave and noble about having the guts to talk about this issue.

Sexual problems could lead to infertility; this is a concern for both men and women but is male infertility more common than women or is it vice versa? Frankly, I think what is more important is the preventive measures than the statistics. I know for a fact that there are proven ways and approved medication to help us stay sexually healthy and eventually combat infertility on its tracks. Much has been written libido, increase sperm volume, erection problems, pain, stress and so much more. So let us use what’s been written because it is everyone’s responsibility to be healthy in every aspect.

I want to talk about a rather mature and sensitive topic. We are after all mature adults here right? So how often should couples make love? And while we’re at this, how often is often? What if you’re in the mood and your partner isn’t or vice versa? This predicament is as real as the traffic you’re stuck in when you’re running late, peanut butter sandwich when you want tuna and or course the occasional bad hair day for girls. It is so real that I wish there is a manual that we can just follow and refer to for guidance.

Just imagine what it would be like if guys can say, “Article 28 section 7 of The Couple’s Manual says that anyone will not be denied of their right to some sex action”. Then girls could retort, “Well if you read article 18 section 1 then you’ll know that only happens when there is torrid foreplay involve and section 1-b of the same article states 5 minutes of French-kissing does not qualify as torrid foreplay”. Uhm ok, that was strange and funny. In a system like this though; both parties can unload their frustrations and really complain because there is a clear definition of where, when and how. I’m sure lawyers will have a field day defending sex offenders that varies from people who can’t locate the clitoris to people who fake orgasms.

Ok enough with my active imagination. I’ll let the keyboard rest.