Is there an easier, less uncomfortable way of talking to your boo about sex? About the things you want to try out when your boo is less experimental than you? There is none. You just have to say it, the longer you wait to say it, the more complicated it becomes.

It’s not healthy to just keep your desires bottled up. There is nothing wrong with a little one-on-one, deep down honest conversation. Your boo should be man enough to take it, if not, that doesn’t give you the right to go look for what’s missing in your relationship somewhere else.

Women are more complicated and harder to please in bed compared to men. So it’s not really guys' fault if they sometimes get lost with all the buttons to push but they should at least be willing to learn. After all, there is no manual that comes with a woman’s body. Men should be open to learning from what the woman is saying and what she's not.

Variation is the key. Who cares if you go dress up like a fireman when once you get down to it, you still do it the same way you’ve done it since time immemorial. Try the union of the frog, oyster, goddess, posture of the stars or anything new for that matter. In love-making, it’s how you get there that matters.

One more thing, guys, you don’t have to take home the gold medal everytime. You can go 2nd or 3rd place and take home the silver or bronze medal. I’m sure your girl will appreciate it!

While I do find athletic men very attractive and I have had my share of these types of men; I really am not a sporty gal. So when every guy I know including my boyfriend went loco over the NBA finals, I can’t help but shrug my shoulders and get back to doing my nails. Over the years I have mastered the art of “faking”. It is indeed an art and a difficult one to drill, wouldn’t you think so? When dada enthusiastically updated me about the NBA games, I faked listening with gusto while my mind drifted. It’s not cruelty, I was being polite. Most of the time being polite and nice requires a lot of faking.

I can watch basketball or any game and be caught in the moment of excitement. I will even cheer for my favorite players and for those close calls but I can never be religious about it. I love victories and inspirational stories like “Coach Carter” though. So in conclusion, I guess the only time I will really truly embrace sports is when it is shown with a little cinematography and musical scoring.